Men's Therapy  ·  March 17, 2026

When Was the Last Time You Knew What You Actually Wanted?

There's a cost to spending years optimizing for other people's comfort. At some point you look up and realize you've been so focused on managing everything around you that you've lost the thread back to yourself.

5 min read  ·  James Baker, LMFT
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